Necrotic Obsession

so i had recently come out of a very serious relationship and i met a guy at a party and brought him back to my place... we did the deed and i didn't really expect to hear anything from him again but he called the next day and we made plans to hang out. he lives an hour away and we've been sleeping together every weekend for over 2 months and we talk on the phone a lot. he said we aren't exclusive but i got the feeling he was jealous when i told him i was dating other guys but he also said he isn't comfortable with the whole boyfriend/ girlfriend label... will we ever be more than fuck buddies or what's his deal?

he wants you to be a fuckbuddy, but yet doesnt want you to share with anyone else...

1st fuckbuddies never go tot he next level
2nd if the guy tells you he only wants to be a fuckbuddy its for 1 reason and 1 reason only he is shagging someone else and wants to shag you as well.
3rd if he is not comfortable with you shagging someone else, he is a jealous twat ditch the whinny little prick

i'm not emotionally invested in him, we get along great when we are together and the rest of the time i don't usually call him he calls me and we always have good conversations... i get the feeling he likes me but doesn't wanna have to invest the time and energy into the label of "girlfriend"... he is a genuinely nice guy (he helps a paraplegic guy study by turning the pages for him and is studying special education) but do all guys just wanna be single and see what else is out there? i don't have a problem with it it's just that i wanna know where we are... the answer "i like where we are we're having fun and i am not comfortable with labels" doesn't really answer it though

No.

well good to know i guess... he actually brought up this subject last night and he said he doesn't plan on dating anyone else but that school has to come first... i am not really sure what that means... isn't the creep supposed to be giving me advice?

I concur.

well if i said all college boys would it be more accurate?

No idea, I'm 31; I have no idea who or what college kids do in their spare time.

No.

I have been to college. There are some college boys who will fuck you around if you let them, and there are some college boys who will love you to pieces.

Awwwwwwwwwww.

*Gets Warm Fuzziez*

C'mere SOLO!!!!!!

He wants to feel as if he may have control over the things in his life. He does not see you as the actual person in depth, more of a vessel for his desires. It is easy to believe that one involved sexually with you may have an actual connection (even if subconsciously believed). If they may want sexual involvement than why would they not want other involvement?

It is all empty. Sometimes life is nothing but being lost in the emptiness.

And just inquiring over the matter suggests that you do have emotional curiosity over him (not in reference to being in love/like).

Now I speak!

It is the Quest of every free Thinking Men to gather all the ladies of pleasure that His stable can hold, And to use every tactic to keep them in line and thinking about about the proper things.... Thoughts of Pleasure / Feeding and Providing Shelter! You See My Papa was a rolling Stone were ever he laid is hat was his home ! and as a son of one of the Most freest thinking man, I His Son has picked up the Torch to bring light once again to this World! It will seem unnatural to you Women of Confusion for you have be programed to believe your a equal! but you lack self worth in this plastic world of Confrontation! look at all of the T.V shows and Magazines that have popped up over the last 40 or so years look how many of you flock to the news stands and t.v sets to get your fix of Lies, How the Black Satan (Oprah) Warped the truth to gain her own riches. You all have been Tarred and Feathered and left to rot while she spreads her Disease to Africa... You all are Doomed to Misery unless you deprogram yourselves! More Later!

ok i lack self worth and i'm not an equal... how does that answer my question? oh never mind i'm just a woman of confusion.

thats so cute, where are they?